tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43635327569070544432024-03-05T20:38:29.971-08:00Ginny LeeA blog for family and friends and anyone who is interested in keeping track of my daughter Ginny's progress through treatment for a congenital heart defect.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger69125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-23860576997196400882014-01-11T05:16:00.000-08:002014-01-13T16:38:04.684-08:00Grateful ParentsSeveral weeks ago we were invited to speak at the ribbon cutting at UF Health's (aka Shands) new Pediatric Cardiac Intensive Care Unit, part of the Congenital Heart Center. Ginny's surgeon, Dr. Mark Bleiweis is the Director of the CHC. Yesterday was the ceremony, and they'll start accepting patients on Monday. <br />
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The unit is huge (18,000 SF) with 23 new beds, in a space that was formerly offices and administrative space. I spoke during the ceremony, while Rachel spoke to a few of the media and Ginny was the ham that she always is and cut the ribbon. It was a great day. I'm happy that Dr. Bleiweis now has a bigger space, and the opportunity to help so many more kids. <br />
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I had taken time to prepare some remarks, and reviewed them several times in the morning. They were on my tablet and ready to go. I left the tablet on the podium several minutes before the ceremony. Dr. Guzick (Sr. VP of UF for Health Affairs) spoke, then Mr. Goldfarb, (CEO of UF Health), and then Dr. Bleiweis spoke and introduced me. I hugged him and walked to the podium. I ran my finger across the tablet and..... "Please input your password".... <i>Crap! I don't have time for that. Damn you, Bill Gates!</i> So, despite my preparation, I winged it. Here is what I wanted to say:<br />
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<i> <span style="text-align: justify;">Thank you Dr. Bleiweis.</span><span style="text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="text-align: justify;">My name is Jason Haeseler, and I’m here today
with my lovely wife Rachel and our daughter Genevieve. We’d like to thank UF
Health and the Congenital Heart Center for inviting us here to participate in
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<i>Rachel and I have lived in
Gainesville for over 10 years. We’re
both UF graduates, and we met when we were students in the College of Engineering. When you’re a student at UF and you’re young
and healthy, like we were, and if you’re not associated with the College of Medicine,
you don’t really think about this hospital here in your backyard being a big
deal. It’s a big complex, but if you
don’t have a reason to come over here, you don’t really think about it. Honestly, the only time I really thought about
it in any larger sense was when I saw TV commercials that played during UF
football games. Frankly, I was a little
cynical about them. “UF & Shands:
The Science of Hope.” It was
well-produced and well-placed advertising, and that’s easy to be cynical
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<i>That all changed one day in
2010. Rachel had what her obstetrician
called a “textbook pregnancy”, right up until the day of her delivery. The thought that anything could go wrong
didn’t cross our minds. Genevieve was
born at another hospital in Gainesville and immediately we knew something was
wrong. Ginny was sent here to UF when
she was maybe two hours old. It wasn’t
long before we were introduced to the folks from the Congenital Heart
Center. It was in that instant, my
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<i>Ginny was diagnosed with
Transposition of the Great Arteries, which was complicated considerably by
pulmonary hypertension. Dr. Chandran
explained what all that meant to one very scared dad. Over the next month Dr. Fricker and Dr.
Bleiweis led a team of dedicated professionals to get Ginny’s pulmonary
hypertension resolved and she was ready for surgery. On June 29, 2010, Dr.
Bleiweis repaired Ginny’s heart. We took
her home on July 22, 2010 and didn’t look back.
With each passing year, it would be harder and harder to believe that
that little firecracker standing right over there was ever sick at all. When we tell the story of Ginny’s first few
months to folks that didn’t know us then, many have a hard time believing
it. Sometimes we even had a hard time
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<i>One Thursday, just a few short
weeks ago, I got a call from Ginny’s daycare saying “she’s not feeling well and
has a fever. You need to come pick her up.”
Less than 12 hours later, we were right back here on the 10<sup>th</sup>
floor, where Ginny spent 10 days on a ventilator after contracting pneumonia
and a viral infection. We were greeted
by familiar faces, and got world-class care.
Ginny is now fully recovered, and she went back to preschool just last
week. We had the advantage during this
most recent stay of know our way around, and knowing many of the people that
work up here. That advantage enabled us
to notice something about the people that work here. Each and every one of them
is doing their part to help these very special kids. We found that to be true from the physicians
to the environmental services workers that took out the trash, mopped the
floor, and asked us if there was anything they could do to help us, before
wishing our little girl their best. </i></blockquote>
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<i>On the draft program I received
for today’s event, this spot was listed simply as “Grateful Parent.” Truer
words have never been written. Indeed we
are grateful for what everyone at UF Health and the Congenital Heart Center has
done for our family, and for so many families like ours. Really, grateful doesn’t begin to describe
our feelings about UF and the Congenital Heart Center. If you’ve ever had an experience like ours,
you understand how the English language falls short of expressing what these
folks mean to us. The closest I can come
is not only grateful, but also indebted.
We are indebted to all the folks that made this day possible – most
notably, the physicians, but also the nurses, technicians, pharmacists, and all
the other health professionals. We’re also incredibly grateful for the donors,
the engineers, architects, construction managers, and tradespeople that have made
this place a physical reality.</i></blockquote>
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<i><span style="text-align: justify;">We’re very excited that we now
have a facility here in Gainesville dedicated specifically to children with
congenital heart disease.</span><span style="text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="text-align: justify;">It is a great
thing for our community.</span><span style="text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="text-align: justify;">It is a great
thing for our family.</span><span style="text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="text-align: justify;">Most importantly,
it will give Dr. Fricker and Dr. Bleiweis and all of the outstanding
professionals here the opportunity to help more families like ours.</span><span style="text-align: justify;"> </span><span style="text-align: justify;">Thank you.</span><span style="text-align: justify;"> </span></i> </blockquote>
I'm sure the video of the actual speech will make it to Youtube eventually. Here is the UF Health <a href="https://ufhealth.org/news/2014/uf-health-open-pediatric-cardiac-intensive-care-unit" target="_blank">press release</a>. There was a bit of media there including the <a href="http://www.gainesville.com/article/20140110/ARTICLES/140119965?tc=cr&tc=ar#gsc.tab=0" target="_blank">Gainesville Sun</a>, the <a href="http://gainesvillebizreport.com/" target="_blank">Business Report</a> (a monthly paper, so the story might not be out for a while), and both local TV news stations, <a href="http://www.wcjb.com/local-news/2014/01/uf-health-unveils-cardiac-care-unit-young-patients" target="_blank">WJCB </a> and <a href="http://www.mygtn.tv/story/24419835/new-pediatric-cardiac-intensive-care-unit" target="_blank">WGTN</a>. <br />
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I've decided that there are two things that we're going to tell everyone we meet that has never been to Gainesville:<br />
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If you've never been here, you should visit. It's one of the best places in the country to live. </div>
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Ginny came home from the hospital the Sunday before Thanksgiving. It was great to be home with both girls. While Rachel was out picking up some prescriptions, we watched Monsters, Inc. Then we all got some much-needed rest. I've been reflecting on those two weeks, and it's a bit head-spinning how quickly everything happened. </div>
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This was Ginny and me on Sunday, the 10th. We went to the new Waffle House for breakfast. (What can I say, we're rednecks... We did wear shoes, though.) Ginny was starting to get a little cough, but hey, kids in daycare pass around germs all the time. </div>
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We're keeping both girls out of daycare until after the New Year, just to keep the germs away until Ginny is fully recovered. The folks at GRU and the City of Gainesville created a leave bank, and so many people have donated their own vacation time that Rachel will be able to stay home with the girls until then. Chalk that up to another reason why we're never moving away from this town. Thank you all! Gainesville is home to the best people on the planet. <br />
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Now we are here reflecting on the whole experience while we try to remember what "normal" is. Normal will come back pretty quickly, I think. As far as my reflections, I think some of them are important to share. </div>
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<li>A lot of people have given us great words of encouragement throughout all of Ginny's health "adventures". One sentiment that we hear pretty often is that we're tougher or stronger than most parents. "I don't know how you guys stay so strong," someone once said, along with "I don't think we could handle going through something like that. How do you do it?" Well, the short answers are that we're not any stronger than you are. <i>How do we do it? </i>Hell if I know. We weren't really given a choice. If you were put in the same situation, you'd do it, too. When your kids need you, you'll find a way.</li>
<li>Speaking of what your kid needs... I've seen a lot of other families with really sick kids, and I have noticed that there is something different about us. Other families (none that we know well, but when you're in close quarters in the hospital, sometimes you see and hear things) that often parents question "<a href="http://babyginnylee.blogspot.com/2010/06/why.html" target="_blank">Why</a>?" I wrote about this a few years ago, when one of Ginny's neighbors in the NICU passed away on Father's Day. It's a harsh reality that no parent should have to face, but "Why" is not the way to handle it. "Why" only leads you to feel sorry for your kid. It leads you to feeling sorry for yourself. Your kid doesn't need pity. She doesn't need parents that feel sorry for themselves. She's in a fight, and she needs a battle buddy. Stop feeling sorry for yourself, pick up your head, and march towards the sound of the guns. </li>
<li>When the world around you is going to hell in a hand-basket, stay calm. Those that you love will need a steady hand.</li>
<li>Maintain your sense of humor. I once heard Mike Myers say in an interview, "There's nothing so serious that is can't be laughed at." My three year old daughter is taking a daily dose of Viagra that would turn an 80 year old man into a walking hat rack. The jokes write themselves, and they don't stop. Laugh at them. Laughter is good for you. </li>
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As we're right in the middle of the holiday season, we've got a lot to be thankful for. I'm especially thankful for my employer, Chen Moore and Associates. I've known Peter Moore for over 10 years now. When I told him what was going on, his only response was "family comes first," as I disappeared for two weeks. I love that guy. We're thankful that so many wonderful and talented physicians have chosen to make Gainesville home, and for awesome nurses & RT's who deliver the care. We're thankful for our families, who took care of Lilly while we took care of Ginny. Most of all, we're just thankful to be home. </div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-79720471096306571592013-11-22T17:56:00.003-08:002013-11-22T17:56:44.819-08:00Moving Towards the ExitToday was a big day for Ginny. You may have seen my Facebook post on how the morning started, but if you missed it, Rachel and I have been sleeping in shifts. My shift started a little before 4 a.m. Ginny started whispering to me at about 4:30, and kept talking (quietly) through 7 o'clock nurse's shift change. During rounds we discussed the plan for the next few days, including the plan for discharge. Yes, I said the "D" word. She did manage to get a little nap in before too much commotion, but she's still really tired. <br />
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All of Ginny's IV medications have been discontinued. We've switched her to oral methadone and an oral antibiotic. We (me & her nurse Katie) pulled her PICC line this morning. She still wasn't thrilled about anyone getting near her, especially if they were wearing scrubs. Slowly she's started to eat, beginning with a Popsicle this morning, and (as a bribe to take her meds) some chocolate ice cream. <br />
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Ginny has really perked up and is comfortably watching movies (thankfully, it's Wall-E, instead of The Little Mermaid for the 15th time today). She still has a pretty hefty cough, but she's moving air and exchanging oxygen for carbon dioxide... pretty important stuff. In addition to the cardiology follow up, she'll start to see a pulmonologist to make sure her lungs are functioning properly and we don't have any other underlying issues, and most importantly we don't have a repeat of this episode. She is a brave kid.<br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-62088488604930554902013-11-21T17:45:00.001-08:002013-11-22T01:39:32.674-08:00Moving AlongI'd like to be able to write something witty and uplifting tonight, but really all of us are just whipped. Here is a quick rundown on Ginny's condition: She's breathing 50% oxygen through a nasal cannula. We removed her arterial line and discontinued all of her IV meds, but she still has the IV's in her hand and foot, as well as the PICC line, but the PICC is coming out in the morning after they draw her labs. (Lord help them if they have to draw more...) She's getting the CPT chest pounding every few hours which results in a productive cough. A few days ago we were worried about her not having a bowel movement. Now they're worried about having to paint the room after we leave... (It's not that bad, but things are moving.) All good things. <br />
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As the stuff in her lungs continues to break up, she starts going into coughing fits. There were a couple in the morning that we suctioned away the junk without incident. After lunch, stuff got real. She went into a coughing fit that required multiple passes of the suction tube. This was accompanied by wild thrashing and a considerable amount of vomit, sprayed all over my arm. It also required that I hold her down by her forehead while our awesome nurse Tiffany (only one of the awesome nurses we've had - including Pam and Laci and Tony and Renee) ran the suction tube down her ET tube. Her face was red as a beet, mouth wide open in a silent scream, and tears running down her face. It was heartbreaking. </div>
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This happened a second time, shortly before dinner, only this time it was Tiffany, me, and Rachel holding her down while our respiratory therapist, Jesse (a dude about 5'10, 250 pounds with legs hanging out of his arm sockets) ran the suction catheter down her ET tube. At least this time we were able to catch the contents of her stomach with the other suction tube. After we got Ginny settled down, I heard Jesse say to Tiffany "Damn. That kid is strong." Told you...</div>
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The third episode happened just about an hour ago with me, Rachel, and Pam handling Ginny while Sarah our RT handled the suction. The green vomit added a nice touch this time. My mother watched and then helped us get Ginny cleaned up while she gave us all the stink-eye for putting her through that. Then we gave her methadone and she went to sleep. Mom's comment: "Parenting isn't for cowards." That's when I realized where Ginny gets all that fight. Rita Horn. If you're a member of my family, you know exactly what I mean. If you're not, I can only say that Rita was my grandmother on my mom's side, and simultaneously the sweetest and the toughest woman on the planet, from 1922 - 1997. </div>
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In all the commotion, it looked like Ginny's ET tube had moved slightly. She was breathing will through the vent - it was only providing 5 breaths a minute, and 45% oxygen. Saturations were in the low-mid 90's. All on track. So, rather than try to re-tape the tube (which no doubt would include a fresh batch of vomit) only to have it removed in the morning, the docs have decided to discontinue her feeds now and extubate in about two hours, provided she stays stable for those two hours. It's looking good so far, so maybe by morning I'll get to hear my little girl's voice again. </div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-56269829347059939632013-11-20T10:12:00.001-08:002013-11-20T10:12:39.896-08:00Well, That was InterestingGinny had a good night last night. Starting with evening rounds, we began reducing the amount of support on the ventilator to eight breaths per minute, and we reduced the NO from 20 to 10 ppm, with instructions to reduce by two ppm every few hours. By the time morning came around, she was down to two ppm NO. The secretions in her lungs were breaking up and coming pretty easy when we used suction. Her oxygen saturation was sitting nicely in the low 90's. We almost thought we could start preparing for extubation. (We'll have to adjust her meds for 24 hours before we can discontinue her sedation.) And then....<br />
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To really understand the meaning of this blurry photo, taken on Rachel's phone in a restaurant parking lot, you've got to do some background reading. Go back to the first post on this blog, "<a href="http://babyginnylee.blogspot.com/2010/06/first-few-days.html" target="_blank">First Few Days</a>." I'll wait.... </div>
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In the first days of her life Ginny was very, very sick. Just to keep things interesting, she gave lots of people the opportunity to save her life. They all came through - big time. That first night it was Dr. Kays' turn. We thought Ginny was going to need ECMO, and when it comes to ECMO, Dr. Kays is the dude. ECMO is a very risky treatment, and he was able to avoid that using a combination of nitric oxide and an oscillating ventilator. He's one of our heroes. That leads us to the<a href="https://m.ufhealth.org/news/2013/uf-health-surgeons-release-record-survival-rates-infants-congenital-diaphragmatic-hernia" target="_blank"> second bit of reading</a>. Again, I'll wait... </div>
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Since the title of this entry is obviously a sequel, you probably went back and read the original "The <a href="http://babyginnylee.blogspot.com/2010/06/science-of-hope.html" target="_blank">Science of Hope</a>." If not, I'll give you a second... </div>
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Yes, you guessed correctly. That cute kid in the LSU shirt (gag) standing next to Ginny is Joseph. (He's the only boy allowed to stand that close to her - and really only for cute pictures and under close supervision.) Our stay in the hospital has given us some life-long friends. Joseph will probably rebel against his family and be a Gator when the time comes. </div>
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A lot of you reading this have reached out and offered your help. Many have brought us meals, or coffee, or run errands for us. We really appreciate it. We're lucky. We've got awesome jobs - Rachel for GRU and me for Chen Moore - with good health insurance, and we've got a great support network. Not everyone up here has that. Ginny's pretty sick, and this is pretty scary, but there are kids a lot sicker than she is. Two weeks from now, when Genevieve the Destroyer has returned home to terrorize her little sister and all is back to normal, we'll be looking for ways to help some of the other very sick kids that are here. We hope you will be willing to join us. </div>
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I've heard from quite a few professionals up here in the PICU that they haven't seen a fighter quite like Ginny before. She's on a lot of sedative and still manages to open her eyes and try to fight against anything she doesn't like. Several folks have commented on her physical strength. She is one tough little girl. My conversation with David went something like this: "Where's she get that from? Which one of you is the stubborn ornery one?" he asked me. "That's the problem. It's both of us..." I said. "Good luck with that when she's a teenager." Yeah, I know.... <br />
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Right now she's pretty sedated, but occasionally opens her eyes and tries to sit up and raise her arms. She's restrained so she can't pull her tubes out anymore (at least not with her hands). She's on the ventilator with 65% oxygen, and getting inhaled nitric oxide at 20 ppm (I probably have a blog entry from a couple years ago about the "baby crack" effects of nitric...), she's on 3 sedative drips and 3 antibiotic drips, in addition to her IV fluids. She's got a tube in each nostril - a nasal gastric tube to put things in her stomach, like her oral sildenafil meds, and a dopoff tube that goes past her stomach to the top of her guts for some nourishment and to keep things moving. It's not a pretty scene, so I won't be putting any pictures up for a while. I will add this one of her in the ER on Thursday, just to keep it a little cute. <br />
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Yesterday at a little before 10 I got a call from Ginny's daycare. She had a fever and would have to go home. When I picked her up she certainly wasn't herself. I called her pediatrician and got the next available appointment at 11:30. Ginny's had a cough and green boogers for a few days and had just finished a course of antibiotics for what we thought was strep. I thought we'd get some more meds and spend the afternoon watching Peter Pan. Boy was I wrong. <br />
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The pediatrician checked her pulse ox as a matter of regular treatment. She was at 85%. "I don't like that number," I told the nurse. "Me either," was the reply. She was given a nebulizer treatment and oxygen, and checked again. No improvement. Another nebulizer treatment and more oxygen. No improvement. So.....another ambulance ride for Ginny and Daddy - this time to the new Shands pediatric emergency room. <br />
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If you read back in this blog to the very first entry, you'll see that people don't always yield to ambulances. Let me be more explicit now: if you drive like an asshole around an ambulance you are endangering the life of someone very special. Don't do it. Also, if I see you, I will follow you. Your day will not end well. I promise.<br />
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Ginny was great in the ED. She seemed like she was feeling better, but her oxygen was still pretty low. She was on oxygen and continuous albuterol through a mask (that looked like a fish face). We were transferred upstairs to the PICU about 6 pm or so. Upstairs things got a little different.<br />
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Even though she was relatively comfortable, she was getting sick of the mask. She kept taking it off, so we had to give her the nasal cannula. She didn't like that much either, so she ripped it off after 30 minutes. Her oxygen wasn't getting better, so it gave us a chance to try the high-flow nasal cannula. That lasted a little while before she took that out, too. And again, oxygen was still not improving. We knew that eventually this could lead to intubation, but there was one more thing to try: the CPAP.<br />
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David was our respiratory therapist last night. He's a big dude, bigger than me, and a veteran of two tours in Iraq and one in Afghanistan. He was no match for Ginny. There was no way in hell anybody was going to strap another apparatus to her face. This all happened about 3 o'clock this morning. We made the tough decision to quit wrestling with her, sedate her and put her on a ventilator. She really didn't like the IV in her foot, but in retrospect, probably handled it better than Rachel would have.<br />
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The intubation went well, but shortly after her sedation started to wear off. With her breathing tube still in, she sat up in bed and tried to pull that tube out, tape and all. We've adjusted her meds and she's resting comfortably. We've been operating under the assumption that pneumonia is the primary problem. Not all of the labs are back yet, but just a few minutes ago we learned that one of Ginny's problems is respiratory syncytial virus or RSV. You can read more about it here: <a href="http://kidshealth.org/parent/infections/lung/rsv.html">http://kidshealth.org/parent/infections/lung/rsv.html</a><br />
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Her symptoms are probably going to get worse before they get better. We expect to be in the PICU until at least Sunday, most likely longer. There's a great crew up here, many of whom remember Ginny from her last stay on the 10th floor. They make it a little bit easier, but I wish we were having a reunion under easier circumstances. <br />
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Thanks to everyone for their love and support. We really appreciate it. <br />
<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-57462508117472828402010-10-28T18:05:00.000-07:002010-10-28T19:05:29.472-07:00Your Parents Are NerdsI know it has been a while since I posted anything here, and a lot of people have asked me when I'm going to write more. It's all in my head, but this fatherhood gig is hard work. Not to mention my actual <i>job</i>. I've promised myself I would get back to writing, I hope you're still around to read.<div><br /></div><div>As I've mentioned before, both Rachel and I are civil engineers. We both love our chosen profession. So much so that even when we're not at work, we're usually talking about some aspect of engineering or otherwise "dorking out." Part of that is our involvement with the American Society of Civil Engineers. We have both been very active in ASCE since we were students. Rachel is an advisor for the University of Florida students, and I hold a seat on the Region 5 Board of Governors (Region 5 is Florida, Georgia, Alabama, Mississippi, and Louisiana - we probably need to come up with a better name).</div><div><br /></div><div>So last weekend was ASCE's 140th Annual Meeting. It was special to us for a few reasons. First and foremost, our dear friend Kathy Caldwell was installed as the President of ASCE (the whole thing!) She is just as proud to be a civil engineer as we are, and she's put a lot of work into getting there. Congratulations, Kathy! Oh, and the meeting was in Las Vegas, too...</div><div><br /></div><div>Ginny took her first plane ride. It is kind of amazing to me that a 5 month old could be flying around the country. My first plane ride was a month after my 18th birthday and it took me to Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri for Basic Training. Not exactly a vacation - it was all-expense-paid though. Ginny was great on the plane. She slept all the way out and all the way back. She did cry all the way home to Gainesville from the Tampa airport, but that's OK. </div><div><br /></div><div>If you're civil engineers and you drag your kid all the way across the country to Las Vegas, it is kind of required that you go to a civil engineering landmark. While the Bellagio fountain might qualify if I were some kind of hydraulics nerd (sorry Dr. Thieke), we had to take Ginny to two others.</div><div><br /></div><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKlpKVf8hymIarOyVEPwzoJr81MhR405WUdkrLQHtirpehbKOUZbOAhuhC5pAciOztaGR_uLjcGsJoJ83CMqILjaqj9YW3GpQpL2kGBIGaL6vf7QEtyGalbXgu2EGNiFZS2CulRNURlho/s1600/DSC_0296.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhKlpKVf8hymIarOyVEPwzoJr81MhR405WUdkrLQHtirpehbKOUZbOAhuhC5pAciOztaGR_uLjcGsJoJ83CMqILjaqj9YW3GpQpL2kGBIGaL6vf7QEtyGalbXgu2EGNiFZS2CulRNURlho/s400/DSC_0296.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5533273364418548722" /></a><div>This is Ginny and me standing on top of the Hoover Dam. Behind us is the Mike O'Callaghan - Pat Tillman Memorial Bridge. It had opened just a couple days before we got there. The dam on the other hand, just celebrated it's 75th Anniversary this week. Hopefully, we'll go back for the 75th Anniversary of the bridge... or at least Ginny will.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiakfyGtAbepOH-qEXowLnjbBpethrCrkaZp62pNRi7kPsHnXGs42lB4thsJXdFWtEaCjB5ZfbQob8tMjIhHRNSGTELmXdoV4YbQI7TP1Av8n7cHOJ3KLUQJRy2zjUNR1cHng4fcT7nPm8/s1600/DSC_0182.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 268px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiakfyGtAbepOH-qEXowLnjbBpethrCrkaZp62pNRi7kPsHnXGs42lB4thsJXdFWtEaCjB5ZfbQob8tMjIhHRNSGTELmXdoV4YbQI7TP1Av8n7cHOJ3KLUQJRy2zjUNR1cHng4fcT7nPm8/s400/DSC_0182.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5533275639749018898" /></a></div><br />This is Rachel and Ginny on top of the Mike O'Callaghan - Pat Tillman Memorial Bridge. That is the Hoover Dam in the background. If Ginny doesn't look that impressed, it might be because she was a little freaked out being 900 feet above the Colorado River on a windy day. She only weighs 17 pounds. (I wouldn't let Rachel take her out of the stroller for the picture. OK, maybe I was the one a little freaked out. Can you believe I used to jump out of planes?)<div><br /></div><div>You're probably also wondering about Ginny's health. She's doing great! At her last Cardiology appointment, they wondered if there was ever anything wrong with her. She is gaining weight, getting taller, and hitting all of her development milestones. </div><div><br /></div><div>Since we came home from the hospital, Ginny has met a lot of people, and helped some of them along the way. Our next chance to help is coming up on the 14th of November. March of Dimes is holding the Gators March for Babies. Ginny has her own marching team, and she hopes that you'll help her by either walking, or making a donation. You can sign up for Team Ginny Lee at: <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; "><a href="http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/t1502476">http://www.marchforbabies.org//team/t1502476</a></span></div> We hope to see you there! OK, now a few more gratuitous baby pictures:<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMQoWsvxywz5DXffq0x7w2VbvOX7u9hQFNG-KnH-x5R4VStD1bSe3S97z9gPwoLRW8r6EX2cPyZv5AoXLVhmQuu25RcJRUEbe3XNFz7FyzEvP2aq3FbXyUFzUWtP6Yy4KNWSs9nSwQ0Wc/s1600/P1050028.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMQoWsvxywz5DXffq0x7w2VbvOX7u9hQFNG-KnH-x5R4VStD1bSe3S97z9gPwoLRW8r6EX2cPyZv5AoXLVhmQuu25RcJRUEbe3XNFz7FyzEvP2aq3FbXyUFzUWtP6Yy4KNWSs9nSwQ0Wc/s320/P1050028.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5533281123550500770" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivI6YKJB5E8p7mp2E1XRBZneQOxzwPQ8Th5Rb-ze7O89vabrYmxk2NnzRcj0oJHITuQ3N6pRZhExVLRrqiwfdKLcKJLwx-ICjw4SKIPNtGuEvEUBLMg7q633UUF3HkkGFP-Eln9CZUCOU/s1600/DSC_0024.JPG"><img style="float:left; margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 214px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivI6YKJB5E8p7mp2E1XRBZneQOxzwPQ8Th5Rb-ze7O89vabrYmxk2NnzRcj0oJHITuQ3N6pRZhExVLRrqiwfdKLcKJLwx-ICjw4SKIPNtGuEvEUBLMg7q633UUF3HkkGFP-Eln9CZUCOU/s320/DSC_0024.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5533282081648476290" /></a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-13351463434024359522010-08-04T15:34:00.000-07:002010-08-04T16:13:00.955-07:00Gratuitous Baby PicturesIt's not that I've become lazy over the last week - or even that there hasn't been much to write about. It's just that we're both so <span style="font-style:italic;">damn tired</span>. Yeah, all you parents - especially mine - are laughing right now. <span style="font-style:italic;">Real funny</span>. So, since I haven't had the chance to drop some profundity on you this week, I'm just going to show you baby pictures - and really, who doesn't like baby pictures? <br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYDkF7S6sVeybu6jTaYN6hnRu8DiZ0AtmxNghPcqG5fPRWcH0tPS2tgy3JXCci0Dc2fbCa66BqvA6tIieuWFn5CAqtdDnv-vI_vALzfRsECGLpmO-aSRHhRZGF1tYSy4opl_erO8N3K1w/s1600/DSC_0965.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 268px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiYDkF7S6sVeybu6jTaYN6hnRu8DiZ0AtmxNghPcqG5fPRWcH0tPS2tgy3JXCci0Dc2fbCa66BqvA6tIieuWFn5CAqtdDnv-vI_vALzfRsECGLpmO-aSRHhRZGF1tYSy4opl_erO8N3K1w/s400/DSC_0965.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501689919580202130" /></a><br /><br />I'm now back to work full time, almost as if I never left. Just as I had suspected, the atmosphere in "the shoe" had grown eerily pleasant. I put an end to that. The ABG (Angry Bitter Guy) is back! If you haven't had an encounter with the ABG, don't think of him as disgruntled. Think of him as colorfully contrarian. Still lots of profundity, just with a lot more profanity. Although, no matter how tough the day is, I'm still perfectly happy to come home and make an ass out of myself just to get a few little smiles and giggles from the kiddo. <br /> <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHEEcew8VGDwD0KepmQj_91j_n_L3esElecNS9p_DPtC3HoxaK6VhgyH-86_BV34LnsBgOrh1pp7K8k0FpbovrSPI-QGDRU-Ze220b-49PeP6huJMJ0qa3BRq6cusuEONitiLS7ehR9Fs/s1600/DSC_1017.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiHEEcew8VGDwD0KepmQj_91j_n_L3esElecNS9p_DPtC3HoxaK6VhgyH-86_BV34LnsBgOrh1pp7K8k0FpbovrSPI-QGDRU-Ze220b-49PeP6huJMJ0qa3BRq6cusuEONitiLS7ehR9Fs/s400/DSC_1017.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501689665104867954" /></a><br />Last Friday Ginny went to the pediatrician, Dr. Wyatt at NFRMC. She had gained 9 oz in one week. We stopped fortifying her milk immediately. She's put on more weight this week, but we won't know for sure how much until Friday's weigh-in. <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7I7tI_5TE5gR0t0R3DjMXWIbw0FRnMpIZQIWephDNOGb0hNT5zYRxKedjyjof-_uERqhisHsDOoQF63kSLNTEsNmV4NN-i5e0pFMf2Lxzx2KOuR_04fTgQ3T5HFqvHMLk7tMyNDJaFnY/s1600/DSC_1006.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7I7tI_5TE5gR0t0R3DjMXWIbw0FRnMpIZQIWephDNOGb0hNT5zYRxKedjyjof-_uERqhisHsDOoQF63kSLNTEsNmV4NN-i5e0pFMf2Lxzx2KOuR_04fTgQ3T5HFqvHMLk7tMyNDJaFnY/s400/DSC_1006.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5501689541026006882" /></a><br /> "You can't possibly be hungry <span style="font-style:italic;">again</span>!"Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-781544529268416672010-07-28T15:17:00.000-07:002010-07-29T18:04:10.026-07:00Unsolicited AdviceWell, today's open house at the Ronald McDonald House of Gainesville was a definite success. Today we raised $2,225 for Ginny's Room. That brings the total amount raised so far to $4,690. Thank you to all who donated. Your generosity will go a long way to bring a little comfort to a families with sick children. If you haven't had a chance to give yet, please visit the newly designed Ronald McDonald House website at www.rmhcncf.org to make your donation today.<br /><br />In a few other earlier posts, I mentioned my friend Matt Z. He and is wife Jenny came up and helped us a lot in the week right after Ginny was born. Jenny is a nervous cleaner, and thankfully she got nervous at our house and helped Wendy do a great job of cleaning for us. Honestly, they did a much better job than we would have done.<br /><br />While Jenny and Wendy were inside cleaning, Matt and Doug were outside doing yard work. They also did a much better job than I would have. After they were done with the work they came to the hospital for a short visit. "When you get home, I've got a surprise for you," Matt said. Those words usually send a shiver down my spine. Matt and I rarely see each other without consuming substances known to impair our ability to operate machinery. In fact we are often too impaired to operate the remote control for the DVD player and end up watching Borat four times in a row.<br /><br />When Rachel and I finally pulled in the driveway that night at about 11:00, we immediately saw the surprise. In addition to raking the entire yard, Matt and Doug had rented a pressure washer and washed the house, walkway, porch, and driveway. Well, almost the entire driveway. When the headlights hit end of the driveway, we saw a 3 foot square of black with a giant letter "Z" in it. "That sumbitch painted my driveway," I grumbled. When I got out of the car I realized that he had pressure washed the entire driveway, but left a square with a clean Z.<br /><br />"Once I got done with the "Z", I realized I should have done an H," he said when we got inside. "Oh well, an artist has to sign his work, I guess." I laughed, and I liked it so much I left it. Now I use it as a landmark to give directions to the house. It's probably good he didn't do the H anyway. The Shands helicopter might have tried to land in the driveway.<br /><br />This weekend Jenny and Matt came up to visit. Great news: Jenny is pregnant! Apparently our experience over the last two months has not scared them out of having babies. After congratulating them, Matt and I sat down for an adult beverage. I promised him I wouldn't give him any unsolicited advice on getting through pregnancy and childbirth - the man's perspective. I got plenty of unsolicited advice, and - quite frankly - it can get obnoxious and annoying. If he wanted advice, I told him he would have to ask.<div><br /></div><div>Then I got to thinking about all the great kernels of wisdom I have gained over the last eleven months. They are just too good not to share. Here are a few of them, just for you Matt: </div><div><br /></div><div>First, no matter how strong the urge over the next nine months - and the urge will be strong - you must never utter the question "What the hell are you crying about?" You should never do this because: A) That question will not stop the crying, and; B) The answer will probably be "I don't know." Just give her a hug and quickly go out to the garage and work on something. It will pass. </div><div><br /></div><div>I know it will be a pain to clean out her cat's litter box, but she just can't do it. There is just too much risk of toxoplasmosis that she could pass on to the baby. Think of it as a trade-off: In exchange for you cleaning up after her cat, she will be your designated driver for nine months. Be careful not to rub it in, though. When you're drunk and she's not, she can do a very good job of making that tumble down the stairs look like an accident. You don't want to go to work with rug burn on your forehead. Again.</div><div><br /></div><div>Boobs! They don't call them fun-bags for nothing. Just be gentle because at times they will be sore. Also, now you can be your own lactation consultant. You were starting to freak Rachel out.</div><div><br /></div><div>Go to as many doctors appointments with her as you can. She'll appreciate the support and you'll be able to help her remember stuff she forgets. I think I read that pregnancy kills like 83.5% of a woman's brain cells, so she'll need help remembering. This is also a good time to start keeping a list of all the people you watch put their hands in your wife's vagina. (They're checking her cervix. Honest.) If labor and delivery gets a little tough (like ours), this list can get quite extensive. It's a good idea to keep a small notebook and pen handy. </div><div><br /></div><div>Fat jokes - Really, only I can get away with that kind of stuff. Leave it to the professionals.</div><div><br /></div><div>Don't let your wife get discouraged if her obstetrician doesn't want to be "friends" on Facebook. She might have a "once I have my hands in your vagina we can't be Facebook friends" policy. It's a good thing you don't have that policy. You'd have a lot less friends. </div><div><br /></div><div>Don't spend a lot of money on cutesy little nursery decorations with cliche sayings like "Precious" and "Daddy's Little Angel". Instead, make your own. Use classic parental sayings like, "I'll give you something to cry about!", and "Wait until your father gets home!" and my favorite "This is why we don't have nice things!" </div><div><br /></div><div>Seriously though, congratulations. A year from today, you won't remember what life was like without that kid. I think that's nature's way of numbing the pain.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-68058171919661479912010-07-27T08:50:00.001-07:002010-07-27T09:07:45.135-07:00Happy AnniversaryTomorrow the Ronald McDonald House of Gainesville will celebrate their 28th anniversary. They will hold an open house from 11am to 1 pm and they will be kicking off Ginny's Room, a new room sponsorship program. You can read more about it in "On Gainesville and Giving" from July 6th.<br /><br />If this seems a little repetitive, let me explain. I just got a message from a friend that is willing to match - dollar for dollar up to $1000 - for every donation received tomorrow during the open house. So, if you would like to give, please come by the Ronald McDonald House of Gainesville at 1600 SW 14th Street between 11 and 1. If you can't make it but would like to give, please call the House at (352) 374-4404.<br /><br />And now, another gratuitous baby picture:<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiB0d29MDOnq_7k5XJFp_r1MvQG2DPyCXtBsfUEXcLTE3vPtEQ3DTN5onyGiqRotLJrJKJ-CUsUmIbRjcSPcrhw1ehH-Mj8wLCRA4HjQTDTqt-1rWl0dAO9HVOHT8gtl0SugnWuoa930gg/s1600/DSC_0915.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiB0d29MDOnq_7k5XJFp_r1MvQG2DPyCXtBsfUEXcLTE3vPtEQ3DTN5onyGiqRotLJrJKJ-CUsUmIbRjcSPcrhw1ehH-Mj8wLCRA4HjQTDTqt-1rWl0dAO9HVOHT8gtl0SugnWuoa930gg/s400/DSC_0915.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5498617948301955890" /></a><br />She really didn't like that bath as much as I let on...Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-70417115764459446192010-07-26T17:18:00.000-07:002010-07-27T04:29:59.279-07:00The New Normal?<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDdgm-SqMMT6dZL8v4V5ncq8PioziE8VYAuRIrEjxhLR_XjBSqB-VnCbkgRVdsc_OMX35LO242TymheZJkoPQghL0L8I2qOazPIG3gKQXgXtC_Y2MNxese2BO1aCUzlqspiU4f5Tabj5w/s1600/DSC_0883.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDdgm-SqMMT6dZL8v4V5ncq8PioziE8VYAuRIrEjxhLR_XjBSqB-VnCbkgRVdsc_OMX35LO242TymheZJkoPQghL0L8I2qOazPIG3gKQXgXtC_Y2MNxese2BO1aCUzlqspiU4f5Tabj5w/s400/DSC_0883.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5498374016683234786" /></a><br /><br />I wouldn't exactly call it "clamoring," but several people have asked for a new post and some pictures of Ginny. The picture above was just before we left the hospital on Thursday. The kid can sleep through anything. <br /><br />Since we got home on Thursday evening, we've been trying to find what our new "normal" is like. On Friday afternoon I went to the office to see if I could still find my way there, and to remind everyone what I looked like. I didn't want anyone to call the cops because an angry bearded man was rummaging through the office down the hall. <br /><br />Today Ginny had her first pediatric appointment, so I went to work a little late. It was nice to go to a doctor's office and just talk about regular baby stuff - like how much she weighs and and what color her poop should be - and not have to discuss cutting her open to rearrange any more plumbing. We talked about how much she should eat. When we got home on Thursday, Ginny started eating 60 ml every 3 hours. By Friday night, it was more like 90 mL every three hours, and today she is sucking down 120 mL about every two and a half. <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzk-NHxyQlgw_7JFHjDIpoE9Rz3IKMi27xGiA0qxrCdlCFMI0S2eM36rapmz0Wc6Ai-_x1H2rh0HXSiReNbFtzU-aWV_0BhrjW_8JL9sLE8ejnkFYhPvUa2htxA0sd9eLtA54OD1BTLas/s1600/DSC_0926.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 214px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzk-NHxyQlgw_7JFHjDIpoE9Rz3IKMi27xGiA0qxrCdlCFMI0S2eM36rapmz0Wc6Ai-_x1H2rh0HXSiReNbFtzU-aWV_0BhrjW_8JL9sLE8ejnkFYhPvUa2htxA0sd9eLtA54OD1BTLas/s320/DSC_0926.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5498379947046840530" /></a><br />When she's done with that she just chews on her hand for a while. It's probably a good thing she doesn't have any teeth or she would be missing a finger. We also talked about how much she should sleep. Luckily Ginny sleeps about 7 hours straight each night, so it's a little easier on Rachel. (Like my daughter, I can sleep through anything.) <br /><br />So, we're still trying to figure out some sort of routine. I suppose in a few weeks we will know what works for us. We've had a busy time over the last two months, and there isn't really any sign of it slowing down. I think we like it that way. <br /><br />This Wednesday Ronald McDonald House Charities of North Central Florida will celebrate the 28th anniversary of the Ronald McDonald House of Gainesville. They will hold an open house from 11 am to 1 pm to celebrate and to announce the kick-off of the "Ginny's Room" room sponsorship program. (If you haven't heard about Ginny's Room, check out my post "On Gainesville and Giving" from July 6th.) We hope you can spare a few minutes to stop by and say hello. Unfortunately, Ginny won't be able to make an appearance this year because she hasn't had any of her immunizations and we don't want to risk her getting sick from a crowd - and we hope there will be a crowd. The Ronald McDonald House is at 1600 SW 14th Street in Gainesville. We will see you there. <br /><br />And now, the gratuitous post-bath photo:<br /><br /> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMQKfSccB6V2FiQUdcgFovVa8lrm5Ns4SYaAVuWhvtIuyVAg3FhnGylqxKyYJyUml_my6fcsojNoXzSVEandt-22M2WLwi9Xzu77X0sSgpqFkSGCTNDLYx78eot8wUQEJExKb89wMzOtE/s1600/DSC_0919.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjMQKfSccB6V2FiQUdcgFovVa8lrm5Ns4SYaAVuWhvtIuyVAg3FhnGylqxKyYJyUml_my6fcsojNoXzSVEandt-22M2WLwi9Xzu77X0sSgpqFkSGCTNDLYx78eot8wUQEJExKb89wMzOtE/s400/DSC_0919.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5498387433696849698" /></a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-40646756719897596682010-07-22T06:44:00.000-07:002010-07-22T12:16:03.451-07:00Happy Birthday to Me!Ginny has been eating like Kobayashi since Tuesday evening. She sucks down at least 60 mL every 3 hours and hasn't spewed once. All great things. So, this morning we took out her stroller and car seat and set it up next to her crib in the hospital. "Are you ready to go home again?" we were asked jokingly during rounds. "Subtlety is not my strong suite," I replied. Just ask the herd of jackasses at parking services. <br /><br />Within about 45 minutes our stuff was packed, Ginny's monitor was shut off, the leads were taken off, and her IV and PICC were removed. We strapped her in the stroller and we were off. <br /><br />Since it was Thursday, we decided to stop at the March of Dimes NICU family lunch on our way out. I know I've mentioned it before, but thanks again to Gator Domino's for donating pizza to the March of Dimes every Thursday.<br /><br />Today's lunch was a special one. On Friday, July 30th at 7:00 pm, the University of Florida football team will host the 3rd Annual Gator Charity Challenge. (You've probably heard of them, Nicole. They're kind of a big deal.) Some of the athletes on the March of Dimes team stopped by to sign some autographs and have lunch with us. They were March of Dimes Team Captain Duke Lemmens (football, #44, DE), Billy Steinman (football, #60, OL), and Claire Spurling (track & field - she's a pole vaulter). Of course they had already heard about Ginny (she's a pretty big deal, too). <br /><br />If you are in Gainesville - or anywhere in Florida, really - you should come support these great charities. Check it out at: http://www.gatorzone.com/story.php?id=18308. We'll be supporting the March of Dimes team this year. <br /><br />After lunch we loaded the car and headed home - this time for good, hopefully. When we got home, we fed her, changed her, and put her to bed. Today is my 35th birthday, and I couldn't have asked for a better gift.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-87675054414035962992010-07-20T13:57:00.001-07:002010-07-21T11:37:49.817-07:00Problem SolvedWe dropped Ginny off at the OR at 10:00 AM and she was back in her room by 11:20. She has just a couple of tiny incisions to add to her quite impressive collection of scars and she is doing great. She has taken some Pedialyte by mouth and kept it down, so we are back to working on feeding. Her "mechanical" issues with suck/swallow have been fixed and now it is just a matter of keeping it down. We had a visit from Dr. Baines (the <span style="font-style:italic;">other </span>Dr. Baines, that is)and we are reasonably sure we will be home by Friday, if not earlier. <br /><br />I'm planning on making a couple of appearances at the office over the next couple of days just to remind people of what I look like, and then I hope to be back to work next week. It's been so long, it will probably feel like I'm starting a new job.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-3839769714471613332010-07-20T07:06:00.000-07:002010-07-20T07:21:28.767-07:00ExcitementAfter only getting a couple hours of sleep on Sunday night, and that being in a recliner at the hospital, Rachel and I slept a little late this morning. We got to the PICU at about 9:30 this morning. As we were waiting at the desk to be buzzed into the unit, Rachel's phone rang. It was our nurse, Amanda, letting us know that Ginny was about to be wheeled to surgery. We hurried to her room and helped Amanda get all her monitors and things ready for transport. The three of us brought her down to the second floor and dropped her off in the care of Dr. Islam at 10:00. If everything goes according to plan, she should be back in her room by noon.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-26113256803339024432010-07-19T07:09:00.001-07:002010-07-19T07:21:25.407-07:00Problem IdentifiedWe actually had to take Ginny downstairs to radiology for her ultrasound rather than them coming up here. The radiologist was able to identify Ginny's problem as hypertrophic pyloric stenosis (HPS). HPS is a narrowing of the opening that goes from the stomach to the intestine due to an enlargement of the muscle around it. This is a known, but not very common side effect of the drug PGE that she was given to keep her patent ductus arteriosis (PDA) open before her heart surgery. <br /><br />Ginny will need surgery to repair her HPS in the next few days. The good news is that the surgery can be done laproscopically and we could be home (again) only a few days after the surgery.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-9890874006494513812010-07-16T07:13:00.000-07:002010-07-19T05:02:19.156-07:00It's 3 AM - Welcome to FatherhoodTeaching Ginny to eat has not been as easy as we thought it would be. The difficulties started at about 2:30 Friday morning when Ginny spit up her dinner and ejected her N-G tube with it. Rachel was a good sport about shoving a new tube up her nose and into her stomach. Friday was a zombie day for all three of us - it was the first day that we didn't wake up at or have to drive to the hospital since May 27th. <br /><br />Saturday was a pretty good day. Ginny has learned how to eat from the bottle fairly well. We were instructed to give her whatever remained of her feeds via the N-G tube and a food pump. She did well with this in the morning, but as the day progressed she would take less by mouth at each feed. By the afternoon she started spitting up as much as we were pumping into her. It seemed like someone told me to use my kid to produce foie gras.<br /><br />Sunday morning was pretty good, too, but it deteriorated a lot faster. By 1 o'clock in the afternoon she was spitting up (read: projectile vomit) as fast as we could pump it in. We stopped and called our practitioner. She told us to lower her feed volume and space the feeds out to 4 hours instead of the 3 we were originally instructed. The 5 o'clock feed went well, until the 9 o'clock feed. That's when she launched 2/3 of her 5 o'clock feed at Rachel. The remaining 1/3 went down the front of my shirt about 30 minutes later. We called our practitioner and she told us to take Ginny directly back to the PICU.<br /><br />We've been here at the PICU since about 11:30 last night (it is about 8 am as I write this). Almost everyone has given us a quizzical look and asked "Didn't you guys go home the other day?" Indeed we did, but apparently we just can't stay away. We're waiting for the ultrasound folks to come by and take some pictures of Ginny's guts. Please pray that whatever it is that is upsetting Ginny's tummy, we can get it easily fixed.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-2058887700963792482010-07-15T15:31:00.000-07:002010-07-15T15:36:33.336-07:00Enough Said<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6_kxDfMxR6OqgMREu4ioiWdd5xCps-DPQ-TfzYCIdiOZaG8GBfxRCMd-57Q_eStQS2-oHC-JaxSrwFdlz8jl5lStwPhq_DbZ1jYuS8doXEe1Nyl5FZYqhhqSOv0JA8j5Pg1Dgbl1AXS4/s1600/DSC_0851.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 268px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi6_kxDfMxR6OqgMREu4ioiWdd5xCps-DPQ-TfzYCIdiOZaG8GBfxRCMd-57Q_eStQS2-oHC-JaxSrwFdlz8jl5lStwPhq_DbZ1jYuS8doXEe1Nyl5FZYqhhqSOv0JA8j5Pg1Dgbl1AXS4/s400/DSC_0851.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5494264495889968530" /></a><br />That's Ginny, asleep in her crib, at home. In a couple days life will begin to approach "normal" - whatever that is. I'll keep posting updates on her continued progress getting off the feeding tube. It's good to be home. Thanks everyone.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4363532756907054443.post-57348851574724008632010-07-14T13:10:00.000-07:002010-07-14T15:11:22.239-07:00Homeward BoundThe past four days have been considerably less than exciting. <br /><br />Our Occupational Therapist Christine left us for the weekend with a plan to get Ginny eating. As usual, Ginny had plans of her own that didn't exactly match up with ours. The goal was to get her eating 65 mL through the bottle by Monday. We would do that beginning with 3 oral feeds on Saturday, then 4 on Sunday, working our way up to all 8 feeds through the bottle. Saturday started off great with Ginny taking 20 mL in the morning, but decreasing with every feed after that. Same on Sunday. She just didn't seem interested.<br /><br />When Christine returned on Monday, we tried with a different type of nipple to see how Ginny would respond. She did well in the morning, but then continued to lose interest as the day went on. We removed the feeding tube for a few hours yesterday morning to see if that was interfering with her swallow, and to get her into a hunger-satiation cycle. That wasn't working either. Rachel stayed at the hospital last night with Ginny to try to get her in the habit of eating by mouth at every feeding. Nothing seems to be working. It really is quite discouraging.<br /><br />This morning during rounds, Dr. Saidi (cardiology) suggested to Dr. Malhotra that perhaps since we live in Gainesville, and we are pretty smart and responsible parents (sadly, a lot of their patients are not) that we could take Ginny home with her nasal-gastric tube and continue to teach her to feed at home. "Would you be comfortable with that," Dr. Malhotra asked. "Can I bring the car around now," I replied. Things don't quite move that quickly around here.<br /><br />This afternoon we have been going through the discharge plan - learning how and when to administer her various medications, how to work the take-home feeding pump we were given, and how to make sure her nasal-gastric (NG) tube is in her stomach correctly. Shortly she will get her car-seat test. We have to strap her in her car seat to make sure she doesn't have a freak-out that will require medical attention. <br /><br />Tomorrow morning Ginny will head down to radiology for another swallow study. Hopefully she will be able to graduate to the standard-flow nipple. If she passes, we'll switch nipples. Either way, we're switching cribs. In the afternoon, we're strapping her in the car seat and heading to the house. Tomorrow will be a very good day.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6